It is really hard to adjust and in situations where you have to face the worst than bad, you cannot decide what is wrong, what is right. People around us ask to stay calm and positive.
What is positivity actually means?
Is it always reacting enthusiastically and smiling? No it’s not there is a useful difference between staying positive and acting abnormal, smiling is a good thing but you shouldn’t and you can’t smile in a situation which is not asking for it it can impact badly on others for example if someone dies you cannot just go and ask that person with a smile that ” BE POSITIVE”, you can’t do that.
Hence you need to realize that what is positive thinking has nothing to do with reacting or acting that you are a positive person.
So how else would you identify that you are positive in your attitude because it is important to realize the difference between acting and being positive?
That difference helps to tackle the problem as much as tackling them with fake emotions, it might also help others how to recover from things. This psychology of being positive is a natural thing, there are many types of research and studies conclude showing that it is important to be positive from your brain and how it can truly make your life more comfortable, happier, and with no negative thoughts.
I’ve listed some signs that can help you to identify the true mental state of yourself.
- A real positive person will not act as he or she is different from others and also will not blabber about himself that he is positive.
- You will not do the ignorance of the negative side, you will accept the negativity and then try to make it positive.
- You will not be over smart and things with overconfidence, you will decide things with a peaceful mind and try to work on things with your hard work.
- You will be more active in your life, active as in energetic, you will not feel lazy and annoyed.
- It is a belief that people who are positive with their mind they are, more into the exercises and Happy works the activities which provide good Vibes.
- You will not hype on things, you will understand the depth of matter and then react.
- If you are positive for real you will not judge people and don’t feel pity, you will carry the personality of encouragement.
- Being positive does not mean that you will not feel the anger but you can only raise the pitch of yourself when Something is wrong.
- You will see both sides of everything, and will not make others feel down and stand on your thoughts like if you did something wrong you will have to accept it.
There are many more signs showing that you are a positive person not only from your activities but also from your mental state. It’s you, who needs to decide the difference between acting and reacting with Positive Vibes.